Camille Crimson's Top 5 Reasons to Give a Great Blowjob (NSFW)

There's always time to talk about foreplay. We were wondering why foreplay plays such a pivotal role in sex for men (we'll get to cunnilingus soon, ladies). Well, of course we sought answers from the Queen of the Blowjob, Camille Crimson. Camille inspires us to give better head. She knows a thing or two about blowjobs. She's been managing the ArtofBlowjob.com for some time now and has made some pretty hot films of herself doing just that. We also have a serious lady crush on her. Without ado, Camille's top 5 reasons to give a blowjob.

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#1 Giving feels good


When we think about the warm, fuzzy feeling we get from giving to others, we're mostly thinking about volunteering for a soup kitchen or giving money to a good cause, but giving pleasure can feel pretty amazing, too.

 Being a giving lover and seeing all the appreciation and enjoyment from a passionate blowjob is its own reward... And a very arousing award at that!

#2 It's a great way to connect

When you have someone's penis in your mouth, it's fair to say that you've entered into a pretty intimate act. A lot of mainstream influences make you feel like it isn't that big of a deal, and it certainly doesn't have to be, but it's lovely to take a moment and reflect on what's actually going on. You're connected in a unique way. Each articulation of your mouth has a direct effect on his cock. Pay attention to the interplay and you'll feel yourself growing closer and more intuitive to his feelings.

#3 It's a skill

It's a skill you can develop like any other: Everybody needs a hobby... Blowjobs could be yours! I'm not saying it'll replace your reading circle or adult dance class, but the more you give blowjobs, the more you learn about your subject.

Developing little tricks and surprising moves is a thrill. The first time you master an advanced technique or experience a cumshot, you really do feel a sense of accomplishment. Besides, and I can speak from personal experience, adding "blowjob master" to your list of abilities is pretty amazing.

#4 It leads to more exploration

Start with blowjobs and you'll surely end up covering a lot more ground. It's a starting off point, but once you find yourself comfortable with blowjobs, you'll naturally find yourself curious about new ways to make each other feel good.

Whether that's more oral sex, using your hands, using your breasts, using toys, watching porn, making porn, finding exciting places to enjoy these blowjobs... The sky is the limit, and it all started with a little fellatio.

#5 It increases the likelihood of meaningful reciprocation

This isn't to say that blowjobs are all given in the hopes that you'll receive something in return, but sometimes receiving amazing pleasure ups the ante and gets you all fired up to give back.

It also opens up the opportunity to ask what makes him feel good and then talk about what makes you feel good. If you're not as into receiving oral sex, you are by no means required to take it as a thank you gift, but you can negotiate some sexy reciprocity that works for both of you.

Camille Crimson specializes in sexuality, feminism, oral sex, and creating and marketing beautiful porn. Her websites The Art of the Blowjob and Slow Motion Blowjob are full of exquisite photo and video shoots that showcase "the subversive yet natural subject we all love: sex". On top of being a versatile business woman, Camille plays guitar, loves horror movies, and has recently gotten into motorcycles.

Follow Camille on Twitter @CamilleCrimson or Facebook.

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Best of 2012! Camille Crimson's Top 10 Places to Give a Blowjob (NSFW)

Because 2012 is still lingering in our memory, and it's Jizz January, we wanted to give more ideas around blowjobs. Did we mention we love giving and getting head? Camille Crimson inspires us to give better head. She knows a thing or two about blowjobs. She's been managing SlowMotionBlowjob.com and TheArtofBlowjob.com for some time now and has made some pretty hot films of herself doing just that. Camille advocates oral sex and pleasure. She has given us her top tips on how to give a blowjob and how to even how to respectfully receive a blowjob! Now our blowjob guru is here with 10 places to give and receive a blowjob! Want to spice it up a little? Follow Camille's advice because she knows what she's doing!

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As a huge fan of blowjobs, I give them a lot. They're part of my life and who I am and I want more people to feel free to enjoy that part of themselves as well. But where? Well, I sat down and thought of some great spots to try out the oral arts (and then some!) from right at home to far-reaching destinations. Blowjobs (and cunnilingus too!) are good acts for experimenting with sex in different places because if you get interrupted (and let's hope you don't) you can zip up and play dumb pretty easily. So, let's get going!

#1 In bed 

Let's start with the basics. Blowjobs in bed are pretty great. You can take turns laying down, you can prop yourself up with pillows, you can get under the covers if it's cold. It's also the perfect place to get extremely playful and exploratory.

You can lay your head over the side of the bed while your partner enters your mouth from above for great deep throating, you can try different ways to 69 for wonderful (and comfortable) mutual pleasure and you can move the fun anywhere else in the house.

#2 In the kitchen

When you're cooking something up with your partner, things tend to get pretty flirty. Maybe you spill a little something on yourself and need to take off an article of clothing.

Maybe you taste test something off of their finger and it inspires you to suck on something else. You can get down on your knees, roll around on the floor (and you can check to make sure nothing rolled under the fridge while you're down there) or get him sitting up on the counter to get better access. You can use whatever sexy foods you have on hand to lick off each other. Why not use a little oil to stroke him while you suck him for a silky smooth handjob. Just make sure not to burn anything while your attention is less focused on the cooking.

#3 While taking a bath or shower 

Playful splashing! Sensual soaping up! Feeling all fresh and clean, then getting all fresh and clean again after! Just a few of the great reasons why blowjobs in the bath/shower are lots of fun. A few words of caution: Don't slip! No matter how good it feels, don't lose your grip.

 If you're giving a blowjob on your knees under the shower, be sure to angle your eyes away from the stream so you don't end up with runny mascara stinging your eyes. And if you're in the bath and you want to see how long you can hold your breath, just be realistic about it. You're not Aquaman! As long as you play it safe, this is one of the most erotic ways to enjoy a blowjob.

#4 At a public restroom

Home washroom play can be fun, but there is something very sexy about sneaking away together to have a quickie in a secluded spot while at a bar, restaurant, concert etc. This invariably means the public restroom. If you luck into a place with single stall rooms, occupy it if there's more than one and you'll be assured a nice, leisurely blowjob.

 If you're in a multi-stall room, you'll need to be a lot more quiet and try hiding behind him so that you can't overtly see two sets of feet. A lot of people love this kind of thrill, so go for it!  Just be sure to hurry up if anyone knocks and don't feel too embarrassed when you walk out.

#5 Up against a wall in an alley 

For those of us in big cities, we've all seen a couple giggling and holding hands as they sneak into an alley for… most likely a blowjob. Of course, there's the risk of getting caught, but if you can be discrete and ready to leave at a moment's notice, you can take advantage of urban life by infusing it with your sexuality. Squatting instead of kneeling is a good way to avoid sore knees from the sidewalk and leaning up against a wall is the best way to ensure that you're out of the field of vision. This can feel a little dirty, but only if you want it to. It's a playful way to take sex out into the streets-literally.

#6 Under the table 

This is fun whether you're in public or at home, though this would be a pretty high risk thing to try at a restaurant. Mostly, it's a nice way to always be surprising with the blowjob. You can't be seen, so every change of speed or sensation is totally unexpected. This can be really thrilling. And if you happen to catch a glimpse of each other and lock eyes covertly under the table, there's a real jolt by having that moment of connection. Try this at home and, well, proceed with caution if you try it anywhere else. It's better to covertly tease each other under the table to start.

#7 The great outdoors 

I've been lucky enough to give blowjobs in a stream, in a field, on a beach, and in the forest. There's nothing more lovely than feeling the wind in your hair and seeing the beauty of nature all around you while you enjoy this sensual act. It's pretty easy to find secluded spots in the wilderness and it brings out your animalistic side and all the desires that come along with it. So, next time you're on a road trip, camping or on vacation at a lovely beach, lay down and marvel at the stars or the bright blue sky while savoring a beautiful blowjob.

#8 In a car  

This reminds me of getting out of the house to have a moment of privacy. Parking is an antiquated concept in a way, but it still goes on and you can do it even once you have your own private space, just to spice things up. I'm not advocating road head (drive safe!) but I do think that there's a really sexy feeling that comes with leaning over from one seat to give a really erotic blowjob.

 You can be in the passenger's seat or the driver's seat metaphorically and literally. Just park somewhere low-key and unexpected. No one likes hearing that tap on the window.



#9 On camera 

This isn't really a place, but it is in a way. Giving a blowjob on film is pretty incredible, speaking from personal experience. Being filmed is exhilarating, you end up feeling like you're giving the best blowjob of your life because you're paying extra attention to feeling sexy and then you can watch it again to enjoy how hot it is. If you do want to take it to the next level and to another "place" by putting it on the Internet, just be sure to stay as anonymous as you can unless that's not the point. Hide anything identifiable from view. Then wait for the comments to come rolling in, spurring you on to more passionate blowjob exploration.

#10 From the rooftops

Have you ever wanted to declare your love from the rooftops? Well, you can sort of do that with a blowjob. This is for the real adventurer. If you have access to a fire escape, then you can conceivably climb up a short building for a nice view of the night sky and an unforgettable blowjob experience- if you're up to the challenge.

What's your favorite place to enjoy a blowjob?

Camille Crimson specializes in sexuality, feminism, oral sex, and creating and marketing beautiful porn. Her websites The Art of the Blowjob and Slow Motion Blowjob are full of exquisite photo and video shoots that showcase "the subversive yet natural subject we all love: sex". On top of being a versatile business woman, Camille plays guitar, loves horror movies, and has recently gotten into motorcycles. Follow Camille on Twitter @CamilleCrimson and on Facebook.

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Camille Crimson's Top 5 Ways to Lovingly Finish a Blowjob (NSFW)

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Interview! Camille Crimson on Blowjobs, Erotica & Motorcycles (NSFW)

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Camille Crimson on How To Receive A Blowjob Respectfully (NSFW)

Is there a way to receive head respectfully? Our favorite blowjob guru, Camille Crimson, offers her expertise. Camille already recommended ladies (or gents) to give good head (and even given her best blowjob recommendations). Camille is here to give men advice on how to make it clear to your partner that you would love a blowjob, while still remaining a respectful and caring lover. We all love blowjobs, guys, and this article offers great tips on how you and your partner can use blowjobs to show (and accept) the love between you and your partner.

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I spend my days focused on blowjobs. Really. I shoot blowjob videos with my long-term partner to be featured on our two fellatio-oriented sites—The Art of Blowjob and Slow Motion Blowjob. I write a tremendous amount about my experience as a feminist making (blowjob) porn and I wind up giving a lot of advice about the ins and outs of blowjobs. You’d be hard-pressed to find someone who spends more time thinking about the oral arts. 


Of course, I spend a good chunk of time thinking about how much I enjoy them and how to best share that with the world but, as with anyone who puts that kind of complex and personal content into the world, I also get a tremendous amount of response to what I do. Time and time again, I encounter men who just want to reconcile their good guy-dom with enjoying getting a blowjob, and why shouldn’t they?

There are a tremendous amount of unpleasant blowjob tropes out there in the porn world. That was a huge reason for me to focus on the niche. It’s surprisingly hard to find a video of a woman really enjoying herself while giving a blowjob without using sensationalistic and not necessarily sex-positive wording. Mostly it’s a lot of gagging and choking or just phoning it in. There isn’t anything wrong with that per say, especially when framed in a clearly consensual context, but it’s certainly not the ideal experience for a lot of men or women and yet it’s the dominant portrayal of a pretty common sex act.



The reason I bring this up is because it colors a lot of the thoughts one has when thinking about blowjobs. While he can easily surmise, whether through personal experience or intimation, that it feels pretty amazing to have someone’s mouth on his penis, the idea can also conjure up fear of seeming inherently disrespectful or having a partner who isn’t really into it. I feel like the best way to ward off these feelings is to look at the way you ask for what you want. It goes without saying that you should avoid coercive statements, but you should also be able to explain what it is that makes a blowjob important to you.

I know that sounds a bit like an essay question, but the more you can honestly communicate what feels good for you in a way that is sexy and direct, the more people will be inclined to be both personally invested and turned-on by the prospect. There is also concern stemming from the notion that blowjobs are a one-way sex act and that many people feel that’s a bad thing.

I tend to respond to these concerns in two equally important ways: first, that many people find giving pleasure very arousing and second, that there are lots of ways to give back. People often assume that the typical protocol is oral sex for oral sex, but that creates assumptions about what your partner may want. Whether it’s a new flame or someone you know very well, asking what makes them feel good yields some very useful information and shows that you care about actually making them feel good instead of just adhering to a sexual script.

When it comes to longer term relationships, sometimes it’s hard to ask for a blowjob, especially if your partner has become less sexual over the years. This is where things get more delicate. It’s important to keep in mind that routines aren’t easily broken and patterns don’t shift overnight, but having ongoing respectful talks about ways to feel more fulfilled in your relationship in general will open up the floor to discuss sexual issues, including blowjobs. Sometimes doctors or therapists can help with larger hormonal or emotional issues, but it does all start with a commitment from both sides to be open-minded and understanding in an effort to find common ground.

Another thing that feels like a huge deal is when you want a rougher blowjob. Just as coming out about any kink, it’s hard to rationalize these desires to yourself, let alone anybody else. The best thing you can do is to contextualize the desire as sexual, be amenable to starting out with just a little experimentation, be aware that this may not be a frequent occurrence and spend time working out safety together as a team. If you are a respectful person and you go out of your way to make that clear, fantasy can be fun and most people are open to trying it with the right framing. You may not get everything you want at the beginning, and being accepting of that is a big part of being a good guy about getting a blowjob. Some people will gladly jump right in, and you can take this with a grain of salt, but that’s not everyone’s natural inclination. If you find yourself with someone who is having a harder time with it, try to understand and be patient. Not everything comes easily, but it’s certainly worth the wait.



Above all else, make your partner feel sexy and wanted. This isn’t just about you getting a sensation you like, it’s about wanting that sensation from them. Being genuinely happy to be with them and excited to be giving as well is so sexy, and it’s valuable in and of itself. All of this builds upon itself, creating a relationship where passion can grow, people feel safe and you’re both encouraged to explore.

Cross-posted with permission from the Good Men Project (originally posted there).

Camille Crimson specializes in sexuality, feminism, oral sex, and creating and marketing beautiful porn. Her websites The Art of the Blowjob and Slow Motion Blowjob are full of exquisite photo and video shoots that showcase "the subversive yet natural subject we all love: sex". On top of being a versatile business woman, Camille plays guitar, loves horror movies, and has recently gotten into motorcycles. Follow Camille on Twitter @CamilleCrimson.

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Camille Crimson's Top 5 Reasons Porn Can Be Beautiful (NSFW)

Every time I see Camille across the interwebs, I almost always take the opportunity to tell her I have a lady crush on her. I'm sure she gets it like--every other day. But who could've imagined seeing Camille Crimson as a feminist pornographer just one decade ago?

Feminist pornography has seen a huge rise in popularity and we are excited to have one of the most amazing creators of beautiful porn write for us! Camille is not only the connoisseur of blowjobs, but she inspires and empowers us everyday as women! Camille Crimson proves that porn, specifically feminist porn, is beautiful, artistic, honest, and authentic. Here are her top five reasons porn can be beautiful!

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#1 Beautiful images and cinematography 

Many people go above and beyond point and shoot. When we think of porn, there are a lot of stereotypes that aren't conducive to beauty, and a lot of that stems from the styling and shakey/static camera work. Sure, there's a lot of that, but there are also more and more directors who take their pornographic oeuvres as seriously as any cinematic shooter. Looking up art porn, glam porn and beautiful porn will yield some breathtaking imagery. People like Erika Lust, Andrew Blake and, yes, yours truly, are excellent jumping-off points for the finer side of pornographic aesthetics.

#2 Real couples  

You can find real couples and real passion: Not everyone in porn is payed to have sex. As much as there are a whole lot of actors, people are increasingly taking the leap to shoot with people they love, or at least people they love having sex with. Whether it's amateur newcomers on Make Love, Not Porn or real couples who have made the leap to erotic filmmaking such as Lilyanne Bloom and Max Sauvage of Pornographic Love Violet+Rye of Uncommon Appetites, you'll find explosive eye contact, intense desire and beautiful orgasms.

#3 Educational 

There's a ton of education, both overt and implied: It seems like there are educational porn lines popping up left right and centre. What's more beautiful than something that you can sit back and enjoy and leave with some new wisdom about pleasure and connection? Tristan Taormino's Vivid Ed series is one of many great examples of people who not only understand sex, but know how to teach it in an accessible and sexy way.

#4 Authenticity 

You can find beauty in moments, not just in shots: Beautiful porn isn't just about the look, it's also about the feel. When people are aiming to make something beautiful, it captures you in little feelings.  Whether it's lingering eye contact, a little giggle, a smirk or a lip bite, there's focus on so much more than the act itself. Getting caught in one of these suspended moments in time is such a rare and wonderful thing, both in life and in porn.

#5 Inspiring 

It's inspirational, as all art should be: When you watch beautiful porn, you don't just get off... You get inspired! The experiences you can relate to your own life, the simple premises, the attention to detail...

It all reminds you that you can do that. You can have the kind of passionate, connected sex you see before you. And you're just riled up enough to go out and see for yourself. That's a beautiful thing!

Camille Crimson specializes in sexuality, feminism, oral sex, and creating and marketing beautiful porn. Her websites The Art of the Blowjob and Slow Motion Blowjob are full of exquisite photo and video shoots that showcase "the subversive yet natural subject we all love: sex". On top of being a versatile business woman, Camille plays guitar, loves horror movies and has recently gotten into motorcycles.

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