Would a Threesome Hurt My Relationship?

Thinking about a threesome with your partner? Before throwing a third person into bed, consider the possible dangers. Will it benefit the relationship, or hurt it? Will jealousy haunt you or your partner? These are the things you need to discuss with your loved one. J. Cameron Gantt offers some sound advice on the complications of a sexual trinity.

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Dear GetLusty for Couples, 

I have been with my partner for one year and so far things are pretty good. A few months ago, he and I were discussing our fantasies and he let me know that he would like to try a threesome. He has never tried it, but I have had a few in the past. I am not completely opposed to the idea, but I am a little afraid of how this would affect our relationship. I have never been in a threesome with a boyfriend and though I want to keep our sex-life exciting, I don’t know if this is something we should explore. What should I do?

Sincerely,
Room41More

Hey Room41More, 

Thank you for reaching out and sharing your concerns. I can tell this is a tricky situation for you and you have some fear surrounding the possibility of engaging in a 3-way with your partner so I hope I am able to help you.

I applaud you and your partner for being open with each other about your sexual wants and needs. There’s nothing sexier than being able to swap fantasies with your partner and seeing what you can do to make it happen.

Here’s the thing about threesomes: There are so many things you have to consider. Is your relationship strong enough to handle a threesome? Who’s going to be the 3rd participant? Will it be a stranger or someone you know? Will one of you enjoy it more than the other? Will someone feel left out? What if it goes really well and it becomes a regular thing? What if it goes bad – will he blame you?

You can’t predict what’s going to happen after everything has been said and done. No matter what you do, sometimes things just don’t work out the way you want them to, especially when you are dealing with more than one person.

I know that one year may seem like a long period of time, especially in gay relationships, but honestly you guys are still fairly new as a couple. You guys are still getting to know each other and to introduce this new dynamic into your relationship so soon may complicate things. You’re already fearful about the possibility of engaging in a threesome with him so I would advise you to trust your gut on this one. Archive this fantasy and save it for when you feel more comfortable doing it with him.

Here are 2 things you can do to make sure you are ready to invite a guest into your sex life.

#1 Keep the communication going

Based on what you have described, you and your partner seem to be pretty open with each other about the possibility of having a threesome. Keep it up! Feel each other out and make sure you both are on the same page as to why a 3-way would benefit your relationship. I know it sounds sappy, but be honest about your feelings. Don’t say you are okay with it if it’s not the way you feel. Pretending to be okay with it will just lead him on and he will be expecting that threesome to happen.

Should you decide to make that threesome a reality, make sure you and your partner set boundaries to protect your relationship. Maybe you don't want him kissing or penetrating the third person. Think about the possible awkwardness afterwards – does the third party leave right after, does the person spend the night? Your fear of a threesome stems from specific concerns. Make a list of things that would hurt or anger you – just imagine this other person touching your partner and see how it makes you feel.

#2 Try a different fantasy before you try the 3-Way

You have so many options to explore if you are serious about spicing up your sex life. Sex toys, role play, voyeurism, BDSM… the list goes on. These are all things that you can do with him that do not require additional participants. GetLusty.com is your personal playbook for hot sex with your mate. Make sure you check out some of our other content and see what piques your interest.

I hope this helps you and I wish you the best of luck in your relationship.

Sincerely,
J. Cameron Gantt

J. Cameron Gantt is a Matchmaker and Certified Professional Coach specializing in gay dating and relationships. He is the founder of Insti(Gay)tor,  a Chicago-based matchmaking agency for the gay community and has dedicated to his time to helping gay singles find love and live their best gay lives.

Cameron currently serves as an expert contributor on a variety of dating websites including Yourtango and Singleswarehouse. He also hosts a variety of GLBT singles events in the Chicagoland area. Connect with him on Twitter @instigaytor, Facebook and at Instigaytor.com.

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5 Must Try Holiday-Inspired Sex Experiences

It's the holidays. And what better time for some seasonally-inspired role play? Yes! For some reason Christmas seems like one the sexier holidays. Something about it, right? It just offers so much potential. We thought of some ideas. Then we asked our naughty wife correspondent, Marian Sanchez, to elaborate. And with a happy hand, Marian obliged! Curious on some ideas to spice up the holiday season with some kink ideas? What better time than Freaky Friday? Marian offers up 5 steamy ideas for a lusty Christmas.

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'Tis the season to break out of the familiar routine and add some holiday festivities to your sex life. This article is for those curious in pushing their sexual boundaries with their spouse or significant other. The most important thing in getting what you want (for the holidays) or any other time is making time to sit and talk with your loved one. Understanding comfort levels is paramount when it comes to more adventurous sex. Now with all that said, here are five of my Christmas sex experiences you should try.

#1 Wrap Him Up in a Big Red Bow

This holiday season take (or make) present wrapping to a whole new level with some white-hot bondage. Things don't have to get complicated in order for you both to enjoy the new experience. Using everyday wardrobe items (scarves, neck ties and so forth) or pleasure cuffs. (Rope for the real bondage experience, satin ribbon for a romantic take on being held captive by your lover.)

Bondage is simply the art and craft of using restraints against the one being submissive. The dominating partner takes charge in all the sexual situations. So for those of you interested in a role change in the bedroom, holding your hubby captive is a great way to start any evening's escapades. Unsure where or how to begin? Just imagine surprising your hubby after he got home from a long day, finding you dressed in beautiful lingerie.

Once he catches sight of you disappearing from his line of sight with that look in your eye, he will follow you where ever you go. Sit him down in a chair, tie his hands behind his back, and his ankles to the legs of the chair. Or you can make him lay in the bed and cuff his arms to the headboard. Now he is all bound up and at your mercy. This is your time to tease, taunt, and make him yours all night long.

#2 The More the Merrier

Lets say you two are an open-minded adventurous couple that always plays well with others. Why not invite another person to your XXXmas party? Maybe your wife wants to experience being with another woman? Or maybe the boyfriend wants a second couple in the bedroom to play girlfriend swap? Want to give a super sexy gift? Give the gift of you and your sexy playmate, in little red bow panties to your boyfriend or husband this year! Not only will you feel like you are on the set of your very own porn, but fantasies will be made real! This is one experience the two of you will never forget.

#3 Run Away to a Winter Wonderland

For some people the holidays run you down and you get a little stifled in the usual holiday routine – visiting family, seeing friends, buying gifts and so forth. Well, why not get away this year! (It's not too late) If you both feel a little rusty, a long romantic weekend will do wonders for you both. You could run away to a nice hotel or cabin in a snowy destination.

The main focus here is spending time with your loved ones and understanding the need for a change of scenery. While you are away from home, this would be the time to let go of inhibitions and reconnecting as a couple. Give a sexy gift and incorporate a new toy, or take your sexual act outside into a hot tub and don't be timid with your voice.

#4 Holiday Hanky-Panky

Did you get invited to a holiday party? Is the after dinner conversation in the living room getting humdrum while your drink gets warm? Do you feel the impulse of trying something a little risque? Excuse yourself and take your partner away for a rendezvous in the guest bathroom. Yes you read that right. Go make that holiday cheer!

The truth is, great sex comes from spontaneity and when it comes to the holidays, they are notorious for zapping your energy. I know your thinking, "I might be too tired" or "What if I get caught?" Having sex when you least anticipate it often the most exciting. Also, there is risk in everything you do, but the outcome is worth it, especially if you need to reconnect with your partner.

#5 I caught Santa Sleighing Mrs. Claus 
 

Santa knows you've been a good boy/girl this year and he's got the tape to prove it. I know plenty of couples who were hesitant about making a sex tape but there is an upside to doing something so taboo. It's a very sensual experience! Sex is and always will be an amazing expression and the way I see it, filming yourselves together is like taking a picture of an extraordinary scene during your everyday life. You are going to have those moments forever.

Want to give your sex tape a holiday infusion? Dress up in a red negligee and give your partner a Santa hat and robe. Then, using euphemisms to describe him and his cock, begin to "unwrap" the best present of all. Get ready Mrs. Claus, Santa's about ready to come down your chimney tonight.

This holiday season, sex is the gift that keeps on giving. If you have other XXXmas inspired ideas, please share them in the comments below.

This article was fashioned by GetLusty writer Marian Sanchez. Marian has many passions, writing being the oldest for her. When she isn't working on articles for GetLusty, she's with her amazing family and her five-cat herd. She enjoys all kinds of movies and TV, spending time with wonderful friends, going to Chicago metal shows and finding humor in everyday life. She has a horrible habit of wanting to learn all kinds of new things and going to different places. When it comes to sex, Marian has a raunchy good mouth and an open mind (which pleases her husband immensely).

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Erotic Story: My Doctor Fantasy (NSFW)

Who doesn't love some erotic fantasy for foreplay? We've heard from Dr. Blockman about her steamy fantasies before. We're excited to have a continued installment. It seems that a particular erotica novel has had quite an influence for many of our GetLusty community. 50 Shades of Grey has stimulated some stories of their own. Dr. Limor Blockman shares another 50 Shades-inspired fantasy for your reading pleasure.

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My doctor fantasy 

I have always had these intense fantasies about my OBGYN. He seemed strong, knowledgeable and very aware of every aspect of the female anatomy, which in itself intrigued and titillated me immensely.

Every time I would make an appointment, I would get a little wet and excited, knowing that this is going to take place soon, again. I arrive at his clinic 15 minutes early, his kind assistant takes my insurance card and asks me to wait.

Anticipation can be a very strong aphrodisiac, and I immerse in it completely. This time he came out, escorting his last patient. While he firmly shakes her hand, he glances over at me, ready and flushed in his waiting room. He comes toward me, and walks me over to the room, his hand resting on my back.

“How have you been Delilah? Great to see you. This is a routine checkup, I’m guessing?”

I was so excited that I could hardly speak, so I just nod in approval. The thought of his firm, sensually invasive hands inside my wet hole get me lightheaded and blurry eyed.

“I’ll leave you to get undressed and get Mary to join us, OK dear?” Oh fuck, I didn’t count on Mary being here, but he never examines me or any other patient without her presence, so I guess I’ll deal with it.

Mary comes in the room first, opens the screen separating me from his sitting area and offers to help me with my robe. “You look so pretty today De, did you change your hair or something?” Mary looked awfully cheerful and happy, I almost felt invaded by her.

“I got a new hair color, and cut it a bit. Glad you like it honey”.

“Now lie back beautiful, the Doc will be with you in a minute, OK? Try to relax!” She straightens my robe and slides her hand over my pussy, in a casual way… “Oh god, could this be happening? Is she aware of my intense lust for the sexy Doctor and “wants in” on it?

I could feel myself getting wetter and more excited, when his voice stops my colorful imagination mid-way. “Ready or not, here I come!"

He opens the screen and stands in front of me, carefully placing my legs in the chair, pulling my waist down further. “Are you comfortable dear? You need to be, I’m just here to make you feel better...”

He lifts my robe, my extremely open, throbbing wet hole, is exposed to him. “Can I take a closer look, you seem to be a little inflamed there… Does that hurt?” he asks as he slowly closes his index finger and thumb on my clit. I burst into a million pieces “This is it, it’s really happening, I’m going to finally get to feel his most craved cock inside me,” I’m thinking, hoping my thoughts are not verbalized involuntarily.

I gasp and spread my legs even wider, inviting him in with a twist of a motion. He lowers his chair in front of my open hole, pulls in, and buries his face in my wetness. His luscious lips, his generous tongue, his long fingers, drive me insane, and I’m about to explode in agonizing pleasure. Mary peeks in. I’m so hot and excited, I don’t even pay attention.

“Allow me to take over, would you Doctor?” She rubs his shoulders and takes his place in front of me, licking my clit with the enthusiasm of a child in a candy store. The Doctor moves closer, kisses me passionately and opens his pants slowly, exposing a beautiful huge cock.

“Suck it hard, Delilah. I've been fantasizing about you and that sexy mouth ever since your first visit.” I opened my mouth wide, closing my hands on his shaft, sucking his pre-ejaculatory juices and caressing his scrotum. He sighs and gasps with excitement, growing in my hands and mouth, shoving his head back into my throat. My gag reflex kicks in, but I fight it and keep going, swallowing his huge cock, loving every minute of it.

He caresses my breasts and pushes Mary’s head down my pussy, rubbing my clit with his fingers and ordering Mary to attend my ass.

“Oh, what a pretty asshole you have De, let me lick it ready for the Doctor. We want to get you all lubricated for this enormous gift."

I’m going into a pre-orgasmic state as she pulls out of my pussy and penetrates my ass with her fingers. I’m heated and excited, but managing to curb my orgasm, as long as my clit is left unattended for the moment. Her fingers open me up, so softly and carefully, I can tell I’m not the first “lucky winner” of this prize. Who knows how many dedicated patients are getting gang-banged by these two.

The Doc slowly pulls his firm erection out of my eager mouth. I stare at him, mesmerized and excited like never before.

“And now, get ready for the real show my darling De, I promise to be gentle…” He pulls my ass further down the chair, so that I’m hanging in the air, with my legs still in the holders, spread wide to his comfort. Mary moves over, kisses me lusciously and starts caressing my engorged nipples, my wet quivering hole and my swollen clit. He slowly penetrates my tight asshole, I ache in pleasurable pain, releasing a soft moan that gets him even more excited.

“You like it, sexy De? You like my huge cock in your petite asshole? Oh god I know I do.”

He increases his motion, pushing his erection deeper and deeper into my ass. Mary works on my clit, pushing her fingers into my pussy, matching the Doctor’s intense motion. I’m gasping and panting, spreading my legs even further. A strong sensation takes me over. I’m about to squirt intensely. “I’m cumming. Oh god Doc, I’m cumming,” I whisper.

“Yes De, cum for me darling. Take me all in and cum. I’m just about to cum in your ass!” I squirt a shower of warmth, wetting Mary’s hands and upper body.

“Oh you’re so good. You’re just as responsive as I imagined, beautiful,” she murmurs.

The Doc releases a moan and a splash of cum goes through me like a jet. He pulls out and rushes over to my mouth. I swallow his warm cock covered in my taste, as Mary licks my ass and pussy to finish.

Dr. Limor Blockman is a world-renowned clinical sex counselor, practicing as a relationship and family counselor, a sex educator, advice columnist, speaker and author.

She holds a PhD in Human Sexuality, an MA in public health and community medicine, and a BA in psychology and behavioral sciences. She has published three bestselling books (published in Hebrew) and reaches people worldwide through print, TV, radio, Internet and video. Find out more about Limor through her website, Facebook or follow her on Twitter @DoctorLimor.

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Two Asian Hookers Are Better To Fuck Than One

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Poolside Threesome With Horny LBFM

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"Horny LBFM" is kind of redundant right? Anyway, here are two white guys tag teaming a LBFM (Little Brown Fucking Machine) outside by the pool at a Bali Villa... I guess it is cheaper to go for the threesome with her than each man getting his own separate turn. Assuming she is a whore and not a girlfriend or wife. LOL... But best guess is that this is still footage of some wild action with an Indo, Thai or Filipino hooker while on vacation in Southeast Asia. Where the laws can be loose and the woman can be even looser. Bali is a great place for a long holiday. Enjoy! Click on pictures to enlarge.

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Japanese AV Chick Enjoying The MFM Threesome

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Here is another Japanese porn chick... This one is getting tag team by two guys and she seem tro bee loving it in an awkward Japanese porn chick kinda way. Threesomes are nice but this set would have been much better if it was a FFM instead of this MFM. Everything is better with two females but in this set at least we know who is the star right off the bat. She is taking it like a champ too... Lol. Enjoy! Click on photos to enlarge.

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